First NIRBHAYA and now GUDIYA. Whatever people or Government do , rape victims are escalating and culprits are escaping. There has been hot discussion on all TV shows and all so cold experts are discussing as they are fighting with each other.It appears from the discussion that from tomorrow society will be all right and no system fault will be there and girls will be safe everywhere. Is this happening????? In a country as large as India , how one can curb such heinous crimes . If the information is available from reliable sources that extremists will some place Police and Govt. will come into action and foil the attack. Here how one will come to know who will rape whom ??? This all will depend on the situation and mental status and the family back ground and culture from which people belong. how police will identify these all. ???? 

. Below is the list of the causes.

1. Modern film stories and picturisation ( sexy scenes) all instigate for the crime.

2. Item songs where girl dance with dual meaning and expose herself to that extent which appear ugly than almost nude that generate sex and lust in men.

3. The society itself is blamed for the cause as we as parents herald male child's birth and become mute and dumb when female child born.

4. Our culture says that we have to respect our Mother and Sisters as their security is our responsibility. Means we indirectly allow freedom that rest is at your mercy ????

5. Most of the rapist are within family and from the neighbor hood and near relative. We as relative keep mum and not give them safe pace to escape.

6. In our culture women are presume as property of male. Even in parents property girls are not given shares that belong to them.

7. Sexy and porn films has huge market in India. Even child of very young age know what is XX films and XXX films. How one can curb them ?

8. For services males go out of their city where their family live. Alone they stay in Big Cities like Delhi and work entire day and at end has to stay in CHAL where in a room four to five people live together. They also talk about sex and film as it is the only way that give instant relief or freshness from the fatigue that gather because of entire day's work.
9. Electronic gadgets are also instigating all such crimes as it has been admitted by MANOJ ( who raped Gudiya) that he and his friends has viewed porn film before committing rape. 
10. It can be appear from our film industry , that American porn star has been accepted gleefully by audience in India. This shows that we take all such crime very normal. 
11. Court cases are going on and TARIK PE TARIKH are extend and finally victims become frustrated and go out of money. Even in every court date victims are asked so many absurd and filthy questions that a girl will prefer to die then to answer such silly questions.

12. Change of Govt. or police is not the remedy of the crime. 

Candle March and Processions may put fuel for timing being to solve the problem but that solutions are sentimental based and not give permanent remedy of the crimes uprooting s. 

13. We have seen in recent past that on girls many school has admitted dress codes. Not to put on jeans pent. Recently a minister of Haryana State had insulted a sports lady coach openly in a public function as she was wearing Jeans pent.

14. Odd men/women ratio is also one of the reason for the henious crime escalation.

WE ALL HAVE TO PUT OUR HEAD TOGETHER AND THINK WHERE WE ARE WRONG , AS SOCIETY. OUR GIRLS AND RELATIVES ( mothers-sisters-daughter- wives etc) ARE OF PRIME IMPORTANCE FOR US BUT OF OTHERS WE ARE NOT WORRIED. RECENT NEWS THAT SHOCKED US ALL AND THAT WAS RELAYED ON TV AS ALSO MAKE US DUMB. A MAN WAS CRYING FOR HELP ON ROAD HIS WIFE AND 5 MONTHS DAUGHTER MET TO DEATH. AS THERE WERE MANY VEHICLES PASSED BY BUT NO ONE STOP TO HELP HIS. AT LAST BOTH SCUMMED TO INJURIES. I FORGET NAME OF PICTURE WHERE HEROIN WAS TEASED BY PASSENGERS IN A METRO TRAIN OF MUMBAI AND ALL PASSENGERS WERE SEATING AS THEY HAVE NOT SEEN THE GIRL AND THE GUNDAS WHO WERE TRYING TO RAPE HER. THE STORY MUST HAVE BORROWED FROM SOCIETY.

NEITHER GOVERNMENT NOR POLICE WILL FIND SOLUTION OF THIS PROBLEM. WE HAVE TO LOOK INTO OUR SELF AND SELF AUDIT OUR BEHAVIOR AND THEN CULTURE. WE SAY OUR CULTURE IS REACH AND SOUND AND WE ACCEPT GIRLS AS MATA AND GODDESS THEN WHY THIS CRIME IS CLIMBING UP????

WESTERN CULTURE IS VERY OPEN AND THEY ALLOW LADY TO PUT ALL FASHIONABLE CLOTHES BUT THEN ALSO THE CRIME IS NOT AS ACUTE AS IN OUR COUNTRY. LET US PONDER TOGETHER. 

RESPONSE OF ALL IS WELCOMED..


Prin.. SUNIL SHARMA.
VAMCC , Bhavnagar. India.  
mail sunilsharma2004@yahoo.com.