First NIRBHAYA and now GUDIYA. Whatever people or Government do , rape victims are escalating and culprits are escaping. There has been hot discussion on all TV shows and all so cold experts are discussing as they are fighting with each other.It appears from the discussion that from tomorrow society will be all right and no system fault will be there and girls will be safe everywhere. Is this happening????? In a country as large as India , how one can curb such heinous crimes . If the information is available from reliable sources that extremists will some place Police and Govt. will come into action and foil the attack. Here how one will come to know who will rape whom ??? This all will depend on the situation and mental status and the family back ground and culture from which people belong. how police will identify these all. ???? 

. Below is the list of the causes.

1. Modern film stories and picturisation ( sexy scenes) all instigate for the crime.

2. Item songs where girl dance with dual meaning and expose herself to that extent which appear ugly than almost nude that generate sex and lust in men.

3. The society itself is blamed for the cause as we as parents herald male child's birth and become mute and dumb when female child born.

4. Our culture says that we have to respect our Mother and Sisters as their security is our responsibility. Means we indirectly allow freedom that rest is at your mercy ????

5. Most of the rapist are within family and from the neighbor hood and near relative. We as relative keep mum and not give them safe pace to escape.

6. In our culture women are presume as property of male. Even in parents property girls are not given shares that belong to them.

7. Sexy and porn films has huge market in India. Even child of very young age know what is XX films and XXX films. How one can curb them ?

8. For services males go out of their city where their family live. Alone they stay in Big Cities like Delhi and work entire day and at end has to stay in CHAL where in a room four to five people live together. They also talk about sex and film as it is the only way that give instant relief or freshness from the fatigue that gather because of entire day's work.
9. Electronic gadgets are also instigating all such crimes as it has been admitted by MANOJ ( who raped Gudiya) that he and his friends has viewed porn film before committing rape. 
10. It can be appear from our film industry , that American porn star has been accepted gleefully by audience in India. This shows that we take all such crime very normal. 
11. Court cases are going on and TARIK PE TARIKH are extend and finally victims become frustrated and go out of money. Even in every court date victims are asked so many absurd and filthy questions that a girl will prefer to die then to answer such silly questions.

12. Change of Govt. or police is not the remedy of the crime. 

Candle March and Processions may put fuel for timing being to solve the problem but that solutions are sentimental based and not give permanent remedy of the crimes uprooting s. 

13. We have seen in recent past that on girls many school has admitted dress codes. Not to put on jeans pent. Recently a minister of Haryana State had insulted a sports lady coach openly in a public function as she was wearing Jeans pent.

14. Odd men/women ratio is also one of the reason for the henious crime escalation.

WE ALL HAVE TO PUT OUR HEAD TOGETHER AND THINK WHERE WE ARE WRONG , AS SOCIETY. OUR GIRLS AND RELATIVES ( mothers-sisters-daughter- wives etc) ARE OF PRIME IMPORTANCE FOR US BUT OF OTHERS WE ARE NOT WORRIED. RECENT NEWS THAT SHOCKED US ALL AND THAT WAS RELAYED ON TV AS ALSO MAKE US DUMB. A MAN WAS CRYING FOR HELP ON ROAD HIS WIFE AND 5 MONTHS DAUGHTER MET TO DEATH. AS THERE WERE MANY VEHICLES PASSED BY BUT NO ONE STOP TO HELP HIS. AT LAST BOTH SCUMMED TO INJURIES. I FORGET NAME OF PICTURE WHERE HEROIN WAS TEASED BY PASSENGERS IN A METRO TRAIN OF MUMBAI AND ALL PASSENGERS WERE SEATING AS THEY HAVE NOT SEEN THE GIRL AND THE GUNDAS WHO WERE TRYING TO RAPE HER. THE STORY MUST HAVE BORROWED FROM SOCIETY.

NEITHER GOVERNMENT NOR POLICE WILL FIND SOLUTION OF THIS PROBLEM. WE HAVE TO LOOK INTO OUR SELF AND SELF AUDIT OUR BEHAVIOR AND THEN CULTURE. WE SAY OUR CULTURE IS REACH AND SOUND AND WE ACCEPT GIRLS AS MATA AND GODDESS THEN WHY THIS CRIME IS CLIMBING UP????

WESTERN CULTURE IS VERY OPEN AND THEY ALLOW LADY TO PUT ALL FASHIONABLE CLOTHES BUT THEN ALSO THE CRIME IS NOT AS ACUTE AS IN OUR COUNTRY. LET US PONDER TOGETHER. 

RESPONSE OF ALL IS WELCOMED..


Prin.. SUNIL SHARMA.
VAMCC , Bhavnagar. India.  
mail sunilsharma2004@yahoo.com.

NARENDRA MODI – THE PRIME MINISTER IN MAKING

I like Naredra Modi and his philosophy, regarding secularism. He had bluntly refused to put on Muslim topi on his head. Does it mean that he is against Muslim??? Not at all. Any one can take record of communal riots of Gujarat in last 10 years ( barring 2002 unfortunate incident) and will confirm that NAMO's philosophy is right. What Congress has been doing from last 5 decades????? It was showing Gandhian Philosophy and not following it. Nom-Secularism must not be in speech but in action .That has been shown on ground reality by NAMO Gujarat CM needs all praise for his work and dedication. In fact now all parties are afraid of NAMO, even some people within BJP too. IF NAMO will be declared as PM candidate, Chances are there that single handly NAMO will take the BJP in Centre.

The fear that Nitish has got is also uncalled at this time. His statement " TOPI TO PAHEN NI PADTI HE' is uncalled at this juncture. Nitish kumar should felt ashamed for his remark. BJP MUST REMAIN FIRM AND ANNOUNCE NAMO AS PARTY'S CANDIDATE WITH CHEST BEATING ANNOUNCEMENT. It is better to stay out of power and function democratically then to remain in a govt that is supported by many small parties with their wasted interest.

Let me remind you CM of Kashmir had praised NAMO some time ago. That became HOT NEWS - for a day or two. Again the CM has to deny what was news relaid on his name. Why this kind of fear being Muslim. If NAMO has done good, why pragmatic and forward Muslims are not coming up to support him.

The anti-sikh riot of 1984 were also grossly against Sikh and then also Sikh community has never taken congress party alone for the mistake. Only few persons of the party where taken to court who were culprit. IF sikh community can forgive congress why not NAMO can be given chance to come out of so called mistake he committed in 2002( still not convicted by court).

All muslim community of India should take note that all parties SP, BSP, CONGREE, CPM has enough time to show their non-secularism tendency. Now give chance to BPJ once and see what alone it can do for India. NAMO has done well to Gujarat and that has been endorsed by developed countries and state within India. He has unique thoughts and innovating ideas to lead India to a developed as leader to the world. This is the only chance to beat China and Brazil to come up. A govt. with thumping majority will show this courage. Congress has many chances before, now it is turn of BJP. ALL MUSLIM BIRADAR COME OUT FROM PAROCHIAL AND TRADITIONAL THINKING. NEW GENERATION ALWAYS COME WITH NEW IDEAS. IT IS NOW UR TURNS TO SET INDIA ON HIGH WAY OF GROWTH. ONLY MUSLIM CAN DO THAT. GIVE VOTE TO BJP N THROW TOPI ON THE FACE OF NITISH KUMAR. 


Prin. Dr. Sunil Sharma. 9898397908


NAMO stands for NArendra Modi -Chief Minister of Gujarat State.

MY FIRST LOVE---MY VAMCC

                          MY FIRST LOVE---MY VAMCC

( VAMCC is abbreviation of Valia Arts and MEhta Commerce College Bhavngar. Bhavnagar. Gujarat State- INDIA  


On verge to complete eight years in Bhavnagar at VAMCC. When i self audit my eight years , I filled with agony and gloom. If for only payment one has to do service then I am successful. But then I am not meant for such service. 

I joined VAMCC with a dream that I would made this college as one of the best colleges in Bhavnagar University within three years and then will compete for state rank and will think for other rank. Went for NAAC in 2007. Many ex-students and Bhavnagar people said that B grade availed by VAMCC is a blunder committed by NAAC. Only I know what efforts I infused for availing the grade. I was sick at the time when NAAC PEER TEAM came.With help and assistance of my then deputies Prof. Vinod Vyas and Prof. Ajantaba Chudasama I could stayed fit.By over looking my health I betrayed my family and they had to pay the cost .

In years 2005-06 to 2007-08 I struggled with few colleagues to take VAMCC at height. But with negative support of the stake holders that were supposed to stand by me in my despair time. Gradually I drop my all ideas and initiatives , and become a Principal with ritual headship.

One can work without employees but not without ideology. My ideology start taking last breath in these years. I wish that my enthusiastic attitude must not be hanged to commit suicide. As a teacher and lecturer I did excel in all fronts but as a Principal I failed in my own expectation. Principal needs support and help from all stake holders but I failed to get that ( I blamed myself). I am bleeding inside and unable to narrate the things to any one who can consel and support me and buck up me again.

At thins hour I grossly miss my parents who were teachers in true spirit. My father advised me once ,not to amend the world but amend myself - DO NOT BEHAVE AS ROMAN WHEN NOT IN ROME. That is the mistake I committed. My time is consumed in blocking the negative deeds coined by others and once I reach to zero level to add positive score again such forces come up with more force.Thus to keep oneself aloof from these negative rays is also appear daunting task for me.

I will shake my shoulders and blow out the despairs and dust I gather in these years and will continue to commit myself for better future of my students. As a Principal of VAMCC, frankly speaking , not satisfied at all for my performance and will give C grade to me.

I promise to my students that I will work more and hard to make their future better , secure and happy. I know that I am accountable to them.

My Gujarati Poem

SUNIL 

Case Study

My poems-2

Why you all wish to separate

me and her,

I swear it is very much

unnatural and crual

Let me tell you about my affection

The bond of love is with total perfection.

Can you separate Sun from its rays?

My Poems

(1)

Why you all wish to separate me from her,
I swear it is very much unnatural and crual.
Let me tell you about my affection
Our bond of love is with total perfection.
Can you separate sun from its rays?
So is my love for her and will stay!
Can one separate smell from Rose?
My affection with her is of that cause.
And how you can separate:
Waves from Seas
Roots from Trees
Buds from Flowers
Minutes from Hours
Stars from sky
Fish from Water
Air from Nature
One can not do there all, I tell you why
Nature has given some unseparable bonds
They will stay together as flesh and bones
So is the case of her and mine,
To separate us in unnatural and undevine. Sunil ( 10/07/97).

(2)

Donot leave me alone
Oh dear ,Donot leave me alone.
i swear , I will be felt mourned
I tell you, I will be forlorned.
For me You donot know
What are you ?
You are source of Thoughts
Worship of God
Rain for Drought
Blood for Veins
Breaths for Heart
Beauty for Smart
Fragrance for Flowers
Minutes for Hour
Eyes for Sight
Thread for Kite
Water for river
Shime for cheer.
Without you , I feel alone
In total dismay and almost gone. Sunil (23/4/1997)

(3)

Cloud are black with silvrlines,
I am sad but still I am fine,
You gave me so much pain before,
In love such pains are bur sure.
Love without pains is never complete
As like rain fall after schorching heat.
I like your pains as they are from you,
Without your love ,i feel subdued. Sunil (9-10/5/97)

(4)

North and South , East and West,

In every side ,I am in quest.

For my love, who is full of Zest,

My search finally come to Rest.

When I find you from all the Rest.

You are the best ,in East or West. Sunil (13/5/1997.)

(5)

Me and You are ideal Dual.

Like our pair there are very few

Whether reman close or at far,

We are the brighest shining stars.

Without your presence I felt incomplete.

I Love you By Heart-I must submit. Sunil (16/6/97.)

(6)

Heart is Pinching

Mind is Wrinkling

Against you leave

Everything is sinking. Sunil ( 18-5-97).

(7)

MY PAPA

O Dear Papa you leaved me alone.

But I felt you still inside me,

For me , you donot know , You were What?

You were God and Source of Thought.

People say ,You passed away,

In my thought and deed you will stay.

Soul is immortal ,body is not.

You will remain always in my thoughts. Sunil. (6/9/97)

FOUL CRY OF INDIAN GOVERNMENT ABOUT PAKISTAN'S PLOITICAL DEVELOPMENT.

"Crisis in pakistani politics is not in favour of India. A democratic government will be more desirable for India". This is the argument Indian political parties are holding. Infact Pakistan's democratic government or Miltry or any sort of authority will never be suitable for India. History will tell you the fact.In last 50 years of Indendepence what Pakistan has given to India? Hate, distress, back stabbing, importing tererisom in India by instigating muslims of India. You name any evil and Pakistan is associated with that to destabilise India. The stronger the so cold democratic Governments were there, all where indulging in the same-TO STAY IN POWER "BRAND INDIA AS THE CHIEF ANIMY" AND STAGE JEHAD AGAINST INDIA BY SHOUTING INDIA IS TORCHURING MUSLIMS AS MINORITY SPECIALLY IN J&K MILTRY IS KILLING MUSLIMS IN FAKE ENCOUNTER.The one point programme of every governemt of Pakistan was and is to separate Kashmir from India and claim that Hydrabad and Junagadh are part of Pakistan.Infact "BIRTH OF PAKISTAN IS BASED ON ABHORRENCE OF INDIA.That is Pakistan's life line. If that will exit to exsist then Pakistan will not remain as a State anymore because then people of Pakistan will demand job, safely,security, education, medical facilities, better living standard etc. These are hard to come as the policy maker at helm has no ideas to generate these all. They know only how to become secondry state of USA or of China!!!!!They are serving these nation as a servent from last 50 years and now to change this mind set needs huge determination and strong willpowerwhich is impossible to come by.
This means stronger the governemt -democratic or otherwise- more troubles for India. Threat of Taliban and Lasker-e-Toiba is by-product of Pakistan during stable days. Remember the war when Nawaz Sarif was Prime Minister of Pakistan and Bombay attack known as 26/11 -Both were carried during democratic government regime.
Now this is the time to Brake Pakistan into pieces so that undesire animity toward India can be deninished. Pakistan will become non-existance and many small states will be outcome of the break. Take instance of 1971-war in which Bangla Desh was separated from Pakistan.( Assume that East Pakistan whoul have exist then what kind of huge terror Pakistan whould have carried against us.) Now between Pakistan and Bangladesh no love has been lost. This situation will favour India as it will be safe and secure of terrisom from east side atleast. India has to do nothing but watch the situation from a distance and obsrve the crumbling of pakistan. Broken Pakistan will be devided into many more states. They will be settling issues among themselve leaving India a side. A democratical or non-democratic Pakistan will never favour India.On the contrary it will instigate Indian muslims to join in Jehad andto promote terrorism as a state policy of Pakistan.
We as India must learn to protect ourselves.Any terrorist attack on India should be replied with iron hands. Unfortunately we failed to do so and demoralise our Army in the process. Take case of Kandhar plane higejake where we freeed Jaise-e- mohmed chief Azar Masood. The same terrorist group has killed many Indians and miltry personnel after he was released. Such incidence shaw that we are not strong enough to take care of ourselves. If so, we have no right to talk about any state and its govt. weak or on verge of break!!!. Afzal Guru ( conspirator of Parliament attack)and Ajmal Kasab are still enjoying luxary at cost of Indian Tax payer after killing hundreds of Innocents citizens and Choiestest Army and Police Personnel. We still debate whther Afzal Guru should be hanged or not!!!!! The irony is that at BATLA HOUSE and at BOMBAY at Taz Hotel many ATS personnel , Commandos and Top ranked police officers loss there lives. Many Parliament still smell ancounter in that!!!! No shame is spare for us now. Antulay is part of the govt. and still he dare to speak this in public!!! We should linch theis type of basterd to death,but we are still basking under the glowry of democracy that all have right to put their ideas!!!!
Now to conclude, we shall decide one thing- whether weak or strong Pakistan exits or not , they are not threat to India. Let it break of its own sin. Donot support them to form strong democratic govt. that will be the last nail in India's coffine. Instead make Indian people strong. Give more power to Indian Army and Police force. Give tit for tate reply to any terrorist attack from Pakistan terrotory. Pay heed to your concious and san advices of USA as it may have some infulence on us but remember Uncle Sam has always have its own pernoal intrest in every step.
Be couragious and bold and keep this is in mind that -stronger or weak nabiougher hood has nothing to do with Nation's safety and security unless a national is week from foundation. WE ARE NOT WEAK AND HENCE WE CAN DEFEND OURSELVES. LET SANITY PREVAIL ON OVER POLITICIANS TO IMBIBE THE SAME THOUGT ON THEIR PSYCHIC. JAI HIND-JAI BHARAT. VANDE MAT RAM.